![]() Like, maybe show a little class at your wedding? I noticed the same expression in one of their wedding photos. Her expression during it was disgusting (sticking out her tongue and rock n roll hand signs?). I've been to over a dozen weddings in the last couple of years and no one has done a garter toss. Knowing her, she'd trip over her words in an attempt to get the whole city name out. She just loves being impractical af because she’s pretentious afįWIW, people from the Bay Area do call it "SF" in conversation. Lol when she said SF I thought she was saying the name of a town in England or something since I couldn’t understand what she was saying. The video was extremely short but I think with the sound quality and overall majority of bad speeches that was probably for the best. I do like that both her parents walked her down the aisle which was very sweet. ![]() The only thing that made it their touch was in their wedding outfits, Ben with his high water cropped pants and Jenn with her off the shoulder detail (since I doubt a crop top wedding dress would work out so well). Jenn doesn't have a particular aesthetic so I knew the style of the wedding was going to be impersonal and not have that certain signature that made it a Jenn and Ben wedding. The venue was pretty but bland which matches Jenn to a T. And it wasn't because of their accent but rather the depth their speeches had. I feel like only Ben and his best men speeches were genuine and didn't seem so insufferable to listen to. I know Ashley isn't dumb but her "Ben is her rock" line she used in her MOH speech was extremely cringe-worthy. Hearing Ashley and Steph say their maid of honor speeches really tied in why Jenn sounds like a typical airheaded valley girl even more so. But it makes sense why Jenn doesn't sound as eloquent and her vernacular is so lacking. I also think her throwing in the phrases baby daddy, SF (just say the entire city name my goodness), and the wrong usage for the word "hurdles" only added to the detriment of her vows. To Jenn's vows being all over the place and even with her crying it didn't feel as heartfelt and moving. The drop in the quality of sound from Ben's to everyone else's was jarring (potato ass microphone is right). I think the speeches throughout ruined the video imo. And maybe part of my reaction to the video is also how aware I’ve become to the way (social) media has grotesquely oversensationalized weddings they all must look like this, have that, and how are you going to remember the day if you don’t hire a production crew to have a drone fly over the venue and capture every bite your shitty cousin takes of his veal parmigiana? anyway, this was long but tldr Jenn is a conformist for multiple reasons that I can and cannot empathize with and for those reasons this video boring, thank you everyone Maybe that’s overly critical or over analytical but I remember the engagement video being so sweet and candid and genuine, and this just seemed like a staged production devoid of heart and sincerity. All of the wedding-related shit she’s shared leading up to this ~*~*~highly anticipated video~*~*~ has been sponsored, and the video felt like the uneventful and disappointing climax in commercial form for all the shit she’s tagged. Thinking about it again after typing all that out, I think maybe what really made me not care to watch it to the end was the cinematography. I’m not sure if any of this had an influence on Jenn’s wedding seeming so sterile, but I honestly couldn’t necessarily blame her if it did. People and especially parents can have high expectations for how a wedding must be/have/look, and with something as revered and hyped as a wedding, the outside pressure from people and social media is honestly quite difficult to disregard. On the other hand, based on personal experience, it becomes difficult to plan a wedding that feels personal when you are also balancing concerns the event may not cater to the experience and enjoyment of those attending it. I know some people here had panned Ben’s high waters and Jenn’s shoulder sleeves when the photos came out, but I think those were actually one of the few elements of the wedding they took artistic liberty with. lol) is in some ways a reflection of how much Jenn has lost touch with the eccentric, original and creative personality she once was. ![]() I do think however that the overall aesthetic and overtly traditional elements of her wedding (garter toss. I will say that weddings on the whole tend to be formulaic- and maybe inherently boring to some-and that’s not Jenn’s fault. I honestly got like halfway through Jenn’s vows and then just skipped around in ten second increments for the remainder of the video, I just was like.
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